Talk:Gay sex

Vote from VfD - removed April 14, 2004 - no concensus to delete - merged with Human sexual behaviour

New name instead of Homosexual behavior

This article needs a new title. I will be moving it to "Gay sex" by this time tomorrow if there are no objections. The article is about nothing except sexual practices, so it should be given an article title that represents what it is about. "Behavior" is a word so broad that it could potentially include the habit of taking the bus to work, brushing one's teeth, reading the novels of Proust, etc., none of which are under the domain of this article. In addition, the word "homosexual" is considered quite clinical and old-fashioned, and "gay" is the accepted and usual term these days. Moreover, there is something vaguely homophobic about an article called "Homosexual behavior," as if there is any "behavior" exclusive to gay people. For those reasons, I plan on making the change, but I wanted to announce it here first in case someone had objections or suggestions. Moncrief 05:18, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

I don't think that's a good idea. so far as i know, homosexual!==gay. "gay sex" sounds like sexual activity between/among male homosexuals exclusively. and, for me, "gay sex" implies the people who do that are gay. i think homosexual behavior is broader than "gay sex". well, that's my POV as a Chinese speaker. for reference only for English speakers. --Yacht 05:31, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

I agree with Yacht. This article discusses sexual activity between members of the same gender, who need not necessarily be gay. Marnanel 05:49, 23 Mar 2004 (UTC)

I see your points. What is more important to me is that the broad and not very helpful word "behavior" be replaced by the specific word "sex." I do understand that "Gay" may be too specific. What about Same-sex sexual practices then? That's really exactly what this article is about. Moncrief 05:51, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

Sounds fine to me! Marnanel 06:03, 23 Mar 2004 (UTC)

Lesbian sex, gay sex, and this page should all be redirects. Meelar 06:04, 23 Mar 2004 (UTC)

I'm not sure what you mean? Redirects to the new title? Sounds good. "Gay sex" now merely redirects to "Homosexual behavior." I'll make sure all three redirect to the newly-titled article when it's created. Moncrief 06:08, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

Same-sex sexual practices? If homosexual behavior is about sex only (not include kissing etc), i am okay with that. i guess homosexual behavior is a specialized term for sexology, not sure... --Yacht 09:38, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

Homosexual "behavior" is not about sex only - that's why the title of the current article doesn't match the contents therein. Behavior is a very broad English word that can mean anything from one's daily habits to the way he or she interacts with the world. This article is about sex specifically. I'm not entirely sure I understand what you mean in your comment. Moncrief 09:41, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

well, I meant that what is sexual practice can be very different from countries to countries. in western countries, maybe making love in bed is called "sexual practice", but in other countries, even "holding hands" or "kissing" can be considered "sexual practice". so i think "behavior" is good for the title because it's more vague. also, i am just thinking "homosexual behavior" is a formal expression among sexologists. i am not sure about that. when i was thinking about this article, the first word came into my mind was "homosexual behavior". anyway, if u guys feel "Same-sex sexual practices" is more appropriate, just go ahead. after all, i am not a native speaker. ;) --Yacht 10:06, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

I see your point about the definitions of sexual practices varying from country to country, but the word "behavior" standing alone has no sexual, or romantic, connotations so it really doesn't fit. In fact, the words "homosexual behavior" together have a vaguely homophobic connotation - as if gay people are alien beings with distinct behaviors (not sexual behavior - just the behavior of daily life). I'm glad you were able to understand the need to change the title. Moncrief 10:29, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

For the record, I did not move this page to its new title. I would have been quite happy to continue the discussion another day, or longer if concerns remained. It's sort of unfortunate someone decided to move the title without engaging in the discussion here. Moncrief 09:51, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

My apologies. For the record, I think that there are two articles needed - "homosexual behaviour" is not limited to same-sex sexual activity: there's a whole separate article needed on homosexual/queer culture, self-image and lifestyle. (For example, consider celibate homosexuals, of which there are many). It's just that this article was entirely about sex. I'll tweak things a bit, and see if I can improve the situation. -- The Anome 10:41, 23 Mar 2004 (UTC)

I'm not sure why you changed it back now!! We were all on board with the new name. Please don't forget to change it to Same-sex sexual practices tomorrow, if you don't do it today. I don't think anyone but an admin can do it now since the page was created. By the way, there is an article on Queer culture already. Moncrief 10:46, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

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foster?

Do prep schools really foster same-sex sexual behaviour? I assumed this was some sort of urban legend. Pete/Pcb21 (talk) 11:24, 23 Mar 2004 (UTC)

I'm not sure that they in of themselves foster same-sex sexual behavior per se, but I have heard enough anectdotal evidence to know that there exist incidences of situational sexual behavior in settings where there are only males and no females. If you want a scientific and precise answer regarding the extent to which it occurs, I can't provide that. Moncrief 19:52, Mar 23, 2004 (UTC)

I guess both this article and situational sexual behaviour will remain weaker than they ideally would be until we can dig out some data on that, but I agree it won't be easy. Pete/Pcb21 (talk) 20:00, 23 Mar 2004 (UTC)

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remove

I am not sure y this is removed: "For men, if anal sex is involved, it may cause prostate orgasm, which is uncommon in hetreosexual behavior." --Yacht 02:37, Mar 24, 2004 (UTC)

I'm not sure either, but why are you using the letter "y" to mean "why"? That is really distracting. Moncrief 02:40, Mar 24, 2004 (UTC)

sorry. that's the way i chat on MSN. (same pronunciation) :) --Yacht 05:20, Mar 24, 2004 (UTC)

VfD

I've listed this article as a candidate for deletion. It seems to me that there's really nowhere this page can go except to be a list of sexual practices, and such a list already exists at list of sexology topics. After all, we all pretty much do the same things: oral, genital, anal sex, masturbation/mutual masturbation, kissing, and variations on the above. Exploding Boy 12:26, Mar 31, 2004 (UTC)

MSM

I don't think MSM belongs in the Gay Sex article. Exploding Boy 00:42, Apr 6, 2004 (UTC)

Talk to Ed and Vodex - they're the ones who redirected it here. →Raul654 00:45, Apr 6, 2004 (UTC)

VfD

I've just listed this page for deletion. It's just a redirect from another page also listed for deletion, and contains some stunning factual errors as well, to wit: "While many common same-sex sexual activities are also common different-sex sexual activities, the former includes oral sex, frottage ("frot"), tribadism and anal sex." There is really nothing to say on this topic that hasn't already been said less POV elsewhere. Exploding Boy 01:02, Apr 6, 2004 (UTC)

Please, oh please, tell me where! I want to organize the articles relating to sexuality so that there is as little duplication as possible. --Uncle Ed 12:05, 6 Apr 2004 (UTC)

Check List of sexology topics for links. Exploding Boy 12:21, Apr 6, 2004 (UTC)

Page Move

gay sex gets 9 million google hits, sssp gets only 75,000. Open and shut case for page move. --Uncle Ed 20:30, 5 Apr 2004 (UTC)

At least you didn't move it to Homosexual sex, but its entirely not an open and shut case.Hyacinth 20:35, 5 Apr 2004 (UTC)

I guess I didn't make my case very well here. You do realize that those 75,000 hits are virtually ALL porn, right?Hyacinth 02:37, 15 Apr 2004 (UTC)

How many moves does this make now? It's getting hard to keep track. Exploding Boy 08:24, Apr 15, 2004 (UTC)

Redirect

I clicked on a link to gay sex in a different article and was redirected to human sexual behavior. And the article doesn't even have the word gay in it. What's going on? Asinthior (talk) 18:21, 14 April 2010 (UTC)

Move discussion in progress

There is a move discussion in progress on Talk:Gay sexual practices which affects this page. Please participate on that page and not in this talk page section. Thank you. —RMCD bot 19:46, 15 June 2018 (UTC)